Last one done!
July 27, 2006
Sorry it has bee so long… hi everyone…
It has been a whirl wind of activities the last few days. Schaun is here with the pastor of our church (dave) and he brought two others with him. Brooke is an 18yr. old young lady that is going to stay here for four months. Becky, i know you are watching, so i will tell you, she arrived just fine. I helped her exchange some of her money and so far, she is doing great. She is overwhelmed a little, but doing fine. She moves in with me today. I saw her chasing around one of the girls on her first day (looked like a revenge type ‘run’) so, i think she is going to do just fine.
Two other ‘garage dwellers’ go home today. L It will be sad because i can not imagine how seven different people can live together in such close quarters and never have an argument, it just all worked out somehow. They have been wonderful. I will really miss them.
I have been busy making home visits in Motherwell and giving out all the last of my supplies. There are a ton more toothbrushes to give out now, so i was nearly mobbed by people wanting them. I am planning on going to my village today and checking on everyone that i have on medicine and say my goodbyes.
Tomorrow, we are going off of the ‘world’s highest’ bungee jump. Yikes, i hope i have the courage to do it… i will keep you all posted. The boys are going to do it as well (james may not be able to, but he might be able to do a ‘zip line’). Should be interesting.
Yesterday was phumlani’s birthday! 18 years old now. He is still working and still loving getting a pay check. Man i will miss that boy. Putting on my make-up will never be the same. He has been hugging me at least twenty times a day saying ‘please don’t leave’, ‘i love you so much’, ‘please can you stay’, ‘please can i go home with you’. That hurts so much. But i have to respond strong ‘phumster, you will be just fine, you will grow, have your own family and one day i am going to come and visit you’. I have an appointment set for him at the end of aug. to see about his neurofibromatosis.
Also, mission accomplished with the final child tested. I can tell you the story now. The final girl (who backed out of being tested a few times) had plenty of reason to be worried. She cared for her dying mother, changed her bandages, slept in the same bed, shared the same ‘worms’ from her mother’s sores in her sores. She was constantly exposed to her mother’s HIV. In fact of everyone, i was the most worried about her. But yesterday, she said she was ready to test. So i scrambled around and called someone to meet us somewhere and we did it! We did it in the backseat of a car, but we did it and………. Praise God, HIV negative! The girl folded in half with relief, bawled…..we all bawled… i can not imagine the pressure she felt when she was about to get the results that could change the rest of her life. But she faced it and it worked out in her favor. I have never felt so honored to be witnessing such courage and strength that this girl showed.
Well, all my goals have been met. I have done everything i wanted to do and then some. The last thing on my list is to sit with each of the kids here and tell them what they mean to me and my family. I will see them again one day, i know it!
I will update again soon. Lots of love to you all,
Thanks for your support,
Jennifer, joseph and james.
July 27, 2006 at 12:21 pm
Good to hear from you angel! I will miss hearing of these wonderful deeds; shomehow “I went to Target today” won’t be quite the same. However, I look forward to being able to give all of you big hugs and kisses!
Love, M
July 27, 2006 at 1:02 pm
You’ve got to be kidding me? You are going to bungee jump? Are you crazy? Please tell someone to take some pictures of that
I want to see the look on your face hehehe! Such wonderful news of the negative test results for that young lady! I truly cannot believe your spirit and strength Jen, and I know that you will one day return to South Africa. Probably more than once now that you know the country and many of its people. Congratulations on a job well done and for the fact that you accomplished all that you intended to. Please call me when you return, I want to hear all about it and look through all of the wonderful photo’s!
Peace!
mgm
July 27, 2006 at 1:12 pm
Well Jen, you are truly an ‘African’ now! It will always be a part of you and its voice and heartbeat will be forever calling you back… it is an amazing place filled with extraordinary people and it is so exciting to think about how and where God will work next!
Joshua and Caleb are excited to see the boys after all your ‘welcome homes’ start to settle… I reminded Caleb of what he said over 10 weeks ago about his worries of being “all grown up by the time Joe and James got back home!” and he said, “hey, I didn’t grow up while they were gone – I’m only 6, but I was 4 when they left!” They are also a bit concerned that the boys’ hair has grown out longer than theirs…
A quick update on Gabby’s 3 yorkie puppies — they are really adorable! 5 weeks old today and each weighing a whopping 1 pound!! They are so lovable and this last week have just starting to get very playful and curious! We are leaving for our trip on Saturday, including all 4 dogs — so while it won’t be a life-altering-African-adventure, that may come later… it will be a mini-animal-escapade in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina!
When we all return to Kansas, we look forward to loving and laughing with the three of you!
hugs and blessings,
the brisco’s
July 27, 2006 at 1:35 pm
Jennifer,
I am so proud of you and the boys. I can’t wait to see you after you settle back in.
Just a reminder to let me know what path you are going to take in your nursing career.
Hope to see you soon.
Bea
July 27, 2006 at 4:26 pm
…moved to tears of joy for the brave young lady that had so much courage to face her fear! Wow! Please give her a hug for me and squeeze her tight.
Now! For those of you who haven’t witnesses the ‘Bungee Family’ Let me Introduce them….. (drumroll please)!!!
Jennifer !!! – She is the bungee instigator – I’ve seen her bungee @ Worlds of Fun and I’ve seen her bungee in Destin, Florida!!! A Piece of CAke!!!
Pictures? I’ve got pictures!!! I’ve got the ‘Was I serious about this’ picture of Jennifer before she took the bungee chair in Florida!!! Priceless -
Joseph !!! – He is the enthusiastic bungee jumper!!
I’ve seen him bungee @ Worlds of Fun and then in Destin as well!!! He is a Master
James – Up and coming bungee jumper – Now that he is close to the age of eligibility, I’m sure it will only be a matter of ‘a measuring stick’ before he is off and jumping!!!
So there you have it – The Von Trap Family Bungeers!!!
Do take pictures –
Glad it’s not me …
Love you all! So Happy That You accomplished your tasks!!!
Anna C
July 28, 2006 at 5:17 am
Wow! Wow! Wow! I am more than moved at the thought of a girl caring for her dying mother and probably not even giving thought that she was possibly risking her own health. If that ain’t a role model of selfless behavior for all of us!?! Then, losing her Mom, and being faced with the dilemma to test and possibly find out that she would be faced with the same pain that she witnessed her Mom deal with day in and day out. Who would care for her? I can’t imagine being sick as a child without my Mom.
So, when I think of the amazing complexities of that decision… I can’t help but bawl too and from thousands of miles away…celebrate this huge sense of relief with all of you. Thanks for sharing with such compassion and detail!
As far as the bungie jumping goes… I can’t even stomach the thought so I wish you well with my eyes closed. It’s really strange, I used to be on a rock climbing team in high school and college… and then ever since I’ve had kids… I can’t handle heights at all!
Love ya!!
Andy, Grant, and Nat
July 28, 2006 at 6:24 am
Hello J J & J
Have been thinking about you guys constantly. I know these last few days are tough but know that you had done great things for these people. Enjoy your bungee jump – you are braver than me…. Don’t know if I could do that. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. Justin and Diane send lots of love.
Take care
Love Sharon
July 28, 2006 at 4:05 pm
Hi Jen, well it doesn’t sound as if you have slowed down one bit, and you probably won’t until you’re into the 15? hour flite back to the states. After such a long and rewarding stay in SA why does it not surprise me that you’re going to go bungee jumping. I don’t think anyone could talk me into going for a bungee jump, but that’s just the coward in me I guess. I know how happy you must be with the negative test result for that young lady. Without your support she would have never gotten the test and would have probably lived most if not all of her life in fear. She’s got to love you for that. Have a great bungee jump and stay safe(why do I even bother to tell you that).
July 29, 2006 at 7:42 am
Well, I’m glad you’re bungee jumping and not jumping out of an airplane. Because if you did that without me, I might have to be upset. We have been driving across the country for several days and before that at a cabin on a little lake in Northwest Iowa. There was no computer service and I’ve been dying to read your blogs. Jennifer, I wish I could have responded to every blog since I left my parents. You have again accomplished so much in a short time. I sense that those who will remain after you go will continue your “schedule”, although it may be more like a rhythm. I praise Jesus for the good test results. I have to say I did not expect them. I am happy for them. I also cannot wait to talk to you! I miss you so much!! I love you lots!!
Hope